Fast and Loose Week 1 -Adrenaline vs. Intimacy – Discussion Questions



God created sex for our good, within the bounds of marriage.


What does television lead you to believe about sex? Give examples.


Sex is a powerful tool created for us. However, what saddens the Lord is watching His gift of sex for pleasure, intimacy and procreation being hijacked by Satan. The devil has saturated our culture with warped views of sex and marriage. God never intended for sex to be a weapon (as in rape, sex slavery and women treated like trash). Here’s a thought: just because we have a desire doesn’t mean it should be fulfilled. One problem within the church today is the low view of scripture. Culture is having a greater impact on the church than the church is on culture. What we put in our minds determines how we live. For example, if we dwell on television more than on the Lord, then what we see and hear from the media shapes our thoughts. Movies and television emphasize adrenaline over intimacy. The perfect will of God is one man and one woman, virgins until marriage. Biblical boundaries are a blessing. When we go against God’s Word, there is a price to pay. Sin grieves the Holy Spirit.


Read Genesis 2:18
1. How did God solve the dilemma of man being alone?

Read Genesis 2:21-25
2. How did God take one of the man’s ribs without the man feeling the pain?
3. What did God do with the rib?
4. Was the man pleased with what God gave the man?
5. Why did the man call her “woman?”
6. Does Scripture tell us if man lived on his own between his parents’ home and marriage?

7. Is nakedness part of intimacy?
8. Why did God create sex?
9. Give an example of how sex can be a weapon.
10. What is the perfect will of God?
11. How are Biblical boundaries a blessing?


Please be mindful that we do not all have the same life experiences. There may be people in your group who have experienced rape or abuse. There may be people who have gone through a divorce. Groups should be a place where people can share their experience without fear. God loves us no matter what and He can heal hurts and forgive sins.

2. verse 21
4. v. 23
5. v. 23
6. No. Ask the group what they think.
8. for pleasure, intimacy, and procreation
9. rape, sex slavery, and women being treated like trash
10. One man + one woman, virgins until marriage
11. If we live within God’s boundaries, we will be safe and joyful. For example, parents do not allow their two-year-old to stick things into the electrical outlet nor do they let that child play in the street.

Rise Up Week 6 – Discussion Questions


It is a privilege and delight to interact with God through prayer.


Who is your favorite person to spend time talking with? Why are the conversations so special?


What is one reason prayer is so special to believers? Through prayer we gain access to all of heaven. Prayer is the very fabric of how we function each day. Most people assume that Christianity is just a list of do’s and don’ts along with rule after rule to follow. They couldn’t be more wrong! It is forgiveness through shed blood, adoption through resurrection, and open access to heaven and God.


1. Does God answer prayer? Can you share a time when God answered a particular prayer for you?
2. Does God ALWAYS answer ALL prayers?
3. Why does opening the portal of heaven through prayer “cause all hell to break out the big guns” as Pastor Chris stated?
4. What makes a Christian on their knees undefeatable?

Read Ephesians 3:14-21.
5. Discuss how prayer strengthens the heart through faith.
6. What does Paul mean by rooted and grounded in love?
7. Verse 19 suggests that if we are filled with love and knowledge of God it overflows. Why would this make a difference in our lives?

Read Ephesians 6:18.
8. What does Paul mean by “pray at all times in the spirit”?
9. Do you feel that prayer is a delight or a duty? What can make it a delight rather than a duty to pray?
10. What would happen if we made prayer the focus of everything we do and everywhere we go? How can we pray continually? (1 Thessalonians 5:17)


2. Yes. We might not get the answer we desire, however God will usually say yes, no, or not right now.
3. Prayer is a strong weapon and Satan knows we are empowered by direct access to the mind and will of God as we join together in prayer.
4. Direct access to power and potential of heaven.

Rise Up Week 5 – Discussion Questions


We must be continually filled with the Holy Spirit in order to rise up in power.


What is your favorite worship song? Why?


Through the book of Acts we can see that the early church fathers were filled with the Holy Spirit at multiple times during the course of their ministry (see Acts 1:4-5, 2:1-4, 4:31, 9:17, 10:44, 13:52, 19:6). Believers today must also continually surrender to God and be filled with the Holy Spirit if we are to reach our full potential and and see God’s power working through us. Pastor Chris shared four marks of a believer who is filled with the Spirit. As a group, work through these 4 marks. Encourage and build each other up. Pray for each other to be filled with the Holy Spirit.


Read Galatians 5:16-17

The first mark of being filled by the Holy Spirit is victory in your walk.

1. Have you noticed a difference in your life and what desires lead you since you began to follow Christ?

2. If you are struggling with victory, how can the group pray for you, encourage you, and hold you accountable?

Pray Galatians 5:16 over the group.

Read Acts 1:8

The second mark is victory in witnessing.

3. With whom have you shared your faith lately?

4. How can we be bold about our faith without being belligerent?

5. Who do you want to witness to, and how can the group pray for you and this person?

Read Galatians 5:22-23

The third mark is to see the fruit of the Spirit produced in our lives.

6. What fruit of the Spirit do you see in your life? What fruit do you see in the lives of your group members?

7. What fruit of the Spirit seems to be lacking in your life?

Pray for the Spirit to fill members of your group and produce fruit.

Read Ephesians 5:18-21

The fourth mark is victory in worship.

8. Do you find yourself more often complaining or giving thanks?

9. What is one thing you are grateful to God for this week?

Pray Ephesians 5:20 over the group.


This week’s discussion questions place a lot of emphasis on promoting awareness of our need to be filled by the Holy Spirit. Even if you normally do prayer time before or after the discussion, try something different this week. Use the discussion and the verses to pray specifically for your group and the needs that are shared at each point in the discussion.

Rise Up Week 4 – Discussion Questions


Generosity is the heart of heaven, and God is honored when we develop the same attribute.


What is the best gift you have ever given someone?


In our 4th sermon on Rise Up, Pastor Chris addressed generosity. If you check out our website, you will find that one of our values at FP is to “develop heaven’s heart- generosity. We believe that our God has a generous heart. ‘For God so loved the world He gave….’ He is most honored when we develop the same attribute. At Faith Promise we strive to teach every person to tithe his or her income and go beyond in giving to our Lord. God blesses sacrifice and generosity.” Pastor gave a quick overview of the book of Ephesians, where the first 3 chapters tell us who we are in Christ and outline God’s generosity towards us. In chapters 4-5, Paul outlines our duty to walk out our faith in response to His calling we have received. Finally, chapter 6 addresses how we are to “Rise Up” and win the war, putting on the full armor of God. We learned that greed is a mark of an unbeliever’s life not a saint’s life and that it is essentially a form of idolatry (Col 3:5). Pastor used the illustration of God calling Moses from the burning bush in Exodus 3-4 to urge us to surrender our identity, income, and influence to the Lord. He wanted Moses to surrender all, and all Moses had was what was in his hand- his staff. Moses threw it down, and the Lord used it miraculously in many ways as He liberated the Jews from bondage in Egypt. True victory in life is found when we surrender all to Him! What’s in your hand?


Read Ephesians 4:1.

1. We are God’s representative on earth. We are to live our lives worthy of the calling we have received. People are watching- in what ways must we look different? How can the world see Christ in us?

Read Ephesians 4:17-24.

2. With regard to the sermon and generosity, what is a mark of the unbeliever? Share with your group a time where you have overcome greed or covetousness in your life. How was your life changed by it?

Read Ephesians 5:1-3.

3. How can we be imitators of God? How can this look day in and day out? How does God see our sacrifice? God sees us as His holy people, set apart from the world around us. We are called to live a different life, one without sin. Although we are set apart, we still have our sin nature. How does a Christ follower live a holy life?

Read or summarize Exodus 3-4.

4. Moses is called by God to lead His people out of captivity into the Promised Land. Moses reponded the way we often respond to God’s commands and callings… “But…” He was reluctant and fearful when he should have been trusting. God is faithful to equip those He calls with courage, confidence and resources. Are you or have you faced a challenge where you felt inadequate? How and why can you trust God to provide everything you need? If possible, share a time where God faithfully provided for you.

5. Pastor touched on the usefulness of the shepherd’s staff. Recall how it was important in the life of the shepherd. How did God use the shepherd’s staff to teach Moses a lesson? Share with your group some of the miraculous ways God would later show His power through Moses’s staff/rod. (Hint: the answer is not in these 2 chapters!)

6. How can you commit to surrendering what is “in your hand” this week? What do you need to surrender? Your money? Your time? Your leisure? Consider your financial giving. Are you where you need to or want to be? Is there something holding you back? How can your group pray for you as you step out in faith, seeking the heart of heaven in your giving and generosity?


1. Through our humility, patience, unity in the body, gentleness, understanding, peacefulness, kindness and compassion.
2. Greed.
3. Be generous- with our money, our time and our talents. Walk in love. God views our sacrifice as a “fragrant aroma”. PRAY! Surrender all everyday to Him.
5. The shepherd’s staff a form of identity to the shepherd, it indicated their means of income and influence and was useful for walking, guiding, killing snakes, among other things.
God used an ordinary thing and showed how it could be used for extraordinary purposes. He turned a shepherd’s staff into the rod of God. He would use it powerfully in the 10 plagues, parting the Red Sea, causing water to gush from rocks in the desert.

Rise Up Week 3 – Discussion Questions


God created us to do His work—to BE His church—and stay as focused on Christ as when we first became Christ-followers.


Think back for a moment; when you were little, did your family make you the center of attention? Were you spoiled? Do you still (perhaps in your mind) expect to be the center of attention? Are you disappointed when all eyes are not on you?


We believers belong to Christ; God created us to live with our focus on Him and our purpose in Him. I Corinthians 3:16 says that each of us is a temple of God and that God’s Holy Spirit dwells within us. Verse 17 continues to say that the temple of God is holy and that is what we are. So God wants us to keep our focus on doing Christ’s good works. Some of us have gotten things mixed up. Christ is no longer the center of our lives. We discontinued putting our complete trust in him. We end up seeing God as someone everyone else needs while serving a God that makes very little difference in our own lives. It is so easy to get caught up with the church body’s work. We have particular tasks we are asked to complete. In the process of getting the work done, it is easy to let our focus become tasks and other people. Sometimes we see these people as problems instead of seekers. We forget our primary purpose is to be Christ-centered in all we do. Our task is to be available to God every minute of every day in every way.


Read Luke 15:1-2
1. Who were the church leaders of that day? Were they keeping their focus on God’s commands or on man’s laws? How do you know this?

Read Acts 19:9-12, 17, 20
2. Were the obstinate correct in publicly maligning Paul’s teaching? What was Paul’s response?
3. How do we know God approved of Paul’s work?

Read Ephesians 2:8-10
4. Why did God not make a way for us to work our way to heaven?
5. How do you feel knowing that you can’t work your way to heaven? Are you relieved? Are you sorry that all the good things you have done do not pay your way?
6. Although we are not saved by our good works, verse 10 says we were created to do good works. What good works do you feel that God is calling you to do?

Read Revelation 2:1-5
7. List the five specifics that Ephesians had done well? (v. 2b & 3)
8. What did God hold against the Ephesians?
9. What is required of that church to resume right standing with God?
10. What happens if they do not obey?
11. Do you ever feel like the Ephesians? Have you left your first love? Was there a time when you had more passion for Christ and being His church?


1. Church leaders in that day were scribes (kept accounts and interpreted law) and Pharisees (highly influential, arrogant, sticklers for tradition and ceremonial purity, arrogant). The were focused on man’s laws and they were muttering (against) and criticizing Jesus.
2. Paul left and took disciples with him.
3. God did extraordinary miracles through Paul. v. 11
4. God didn’t want anyone to be able to boast about working his way to heaven, which is a free gift.
7. The Ephesians cannot tolerate wicked men, they have tested those who claimed to be apostles but are not, they persevered, they endured hardships, and they have not grown weary.
8. They left their first love.
9. They must repent and do the things they did at first.
10. God will remove their lampstand. (see Revelation 1:20)

Rise Up Week 2 – Discussion Questions


Satan will attack us and drag us into spiritual warfare whether we like it or not. As Pastor Chris stated last week and Zac quoted this week “we saints can defy gravity and soar to heights the world thinks are impossible.” In order to accomplish this we must rise to the challenge and be the spiritual warriors God has called us to be.


What are the first images that come to mind when you hear the term spiritual warfare?


We are in a constant battle daily. Our battle is not against flesh and blood, but against the rulers and powers of darkness and spiritual forces of wickedness in heavenly places as we are reminded in Ephesians 6: 11-12. Our enemy wants to diminish the kingdom of God as much or sometimes even more than we want to advance it. Each day we must rise up and kill selfish desires in order to achieve the dreams God has for us.


Read Ephesians 6:11-12.
1. Do you think we sometimes get confused as to the identity of our enemy? Why?
2. Why is it more difficult to fight against a spiritual versus a physical enemy?
3. We are reminded to put on the armor of God in order to resist the attack of Satan. We WILL be attacked, so we must be prepared when the attack comes. Why do you think Satan is so aggressive in his fight?

Read Matthew 11:12
4. We know that God gives us a portion of the kingdom now, and this makes the devil mad! He wants nothing more than to take it away from us. How can toughness in prayer make a difference in this battle?

Read Ephesians 2:1-7
5. We were all dead in sin before becoming alive in Christ. What has to change for us to move from death to life?
6. In verses 1-2 what made us dead in our sins and trespasses?
7. The term “like the rest of mankind” in verse 3 has huge implications. Discuss some of these.
8. Selfish desires will kill God ordained dreams. Why?
9. How do we overcome these desires?
10. Verses 4-7 reminds us why we continue in this battle each day. We know we will defy the spiritual gravity and soar to impossible heights. Discuss what it means to be made alive together in Christ.


Most of these questions are open ended this week, so allow the group to unpack any of the areas as they have need.

“Spiritual gravity” in this context is being controlled by Satan and the powers of darkness. This produces an intense battle for the kingdom of God.

4. Our enemy is powerful and our most powerful weapon is prayer. Through prayer and the word (scripture) we tap into the power of God. We have to be forceful and tough in our spiritual battle, we cannot defeat Satan and his forces through our own human power. We need the power of Christ to face this battle.
5. We must overcome or kill the selfish desires. This is most likely not a one time event, but a daily battle of dying to self.
7. Here allow the group to explore the dangers of Christ-followers not being any different from the rest of the world.
10. More open discussion on how and why grace through Jesus makes all the difference in our lives.