Guys, come hear Hallerin Hilton Hill answer the question “What do men wrestle with and how can we win?” Bring a friend and your favorite wild game (or $5.00) on Sunday, September 26th @ 6:00 pm. Expect to be challenged and encouraged by the man voted Best Talk Show host by Metro Pulse for nine years running.
Ladies, watch Beth Moore and worship leader Travis Cottrell via live simulcast at Faith Promise. Come enjoy this special event on Saturday, September 18th beginning at 10:30 am. The cost is only $20 per person and lunch is provided. Don’t miss this opportunity to be challenged and encouraged by one of the leading speakers in the country!
1. Pain. Everyone experiences it. Create a list of painful circumstances. Through what painful experiences have you had to work?
2. Scripture tells us in the book of Ruth that Naomi overlooked God’s blessing of community while she was going through a Plan B experience. When have you lived out a “Plan B”? What role did community play in your experience? Can you look back and see the people God placed in your life at those points? Did you see them at the time?
3. Pastor Chris stated the church often fosters fakes. How do we become more transparent? What can we do to possibly help others become more transparent?
4. Are you currently experiencing a “Plan B”?
NOTE: The preceding questions are provided as a supplement to the questions included in the appendix of Plan B. Please refer to Chapter 9 and its associated questions on page 233.
(This post was written by Evan Crass, Associate Pastor of Group Ministries)
This weekend starts our fall “alignment” at Faith Promise – a period of time when the weekend series is further discussed and applied through our community groups. Since Pastor Chris doesn’t normally take questions from the audience, where else can you boldly ask (and be asked) questions that challenge your thoughts on God? (By the way if he did take questions from the audience, it would look like this. In short, if you aren’t involved in a group, you are missing out.
The topic for the series is based on the book Plan B by Pete Wilson. He seeks to answer the question, “What do you do when God doesn’t show up the way you thought he would?” And, let’s be honest, who hasn’t asked this question at some point? In fact, early on in his book Pete says, “No matter what has happened or how you feel, please know you’re not alone. Because here’s what I’m learning: everyone needs healing. Everyone.”
So now that he’s leveled the playing field, he takes the next step in beginning the healing process by deconstructing our perceptions of success, of control, and of God. Pete goes on to say, “We get ourselves into all kinds of trouble when we assume God must think and feel as we do.” And over the ensuing chapters he puts in writing the questions we ask of God while pointing out that answers may not come or even be understood; however, there is hope for those who want it.
Of course there is no quick-fix. There is no silver bullet. Life is messy and yet God is still God in the midst of the mess. Pete sums up the book by saying, “I’ve discovered that sometimes God wants us to live inside of the questions. Sometimes he wants us to linger in the waiting, hoping, praying.”
And as we wait, hope, and pray, I find it best to do so with friends. Plan B situations are bad enough, but to walk through despair without a community of friends is unthinkable. It’s not too late to walk through Plan B (the book) with other like-minded people. Contact email@example.com to find a group of people just like you.
1. Actions reveal our priorities. What priorities are revealed from your actions? Is it easier to see priorities in others or in ourselves?
2. God wants us to be blessed, not necessarily happy? What does this mean?
3. With what decisions do you wrestle the most? Personal happiness vs. obedience to God? Career? Family? Relationships? Financial?
4. What story do you want your actions to tell? What decisions need to be made to change your story?
5. How do you start to flip or change your priorities? Pastor Michael mentioned focusing on only the next decision. How do we practically make only the next decision?
Beginning 9/11/10, we’ll be discussing how God works in and through us when our dreams don’t come true. Based on Pete Wilson’s book, Plan B, our weekend messages and community groups will both seek to answer the question, “What do you do when God doesn’t show up the way you thought he would?”
If you’re not already involved in a community group, join us for grouplink on Wednesday, September 15th at 6:00 pm to find a group of people like you.